Dominance is Containment
In this episode of the Conscious Dominance Podcast, hosts Andrew and Eric delve into the concept of containment within Dom-Sub dynamics. They discuss the newfound popularity of the term, its relation to conscious dominance, and how it provides structure and leadership in relationships.
They share personal examples from their own relationships, illustrating how setting boundaries and maintaining presence are crucial for providing containment. The episode also touches on the importance of communication, the role of inner work for dominants, and the balance of equality and hierarchy in maintaining a healthy, fulfilling relationship.
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The Conscious Dominance podcast was born from weekly conversations between two friends, Andrew & Eric.
Every week, we would connect and talk about the ways that our roles as Dominants in long term, loving Dominant/submissive relationships were calling us to higher integrity, and demanding the absolute best from each of us as men. And in those conversations, we realized how much other men might benefit from being let in on these conversations. So we started recording them for you.
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About Eric
Eric, through Elemental Arts Initiative (EAI), offers 1:1 coaching for men, guiding them to develop unyielding self-trust and skillful leadership through personalized support and transformative integration practices. Learn more at https://elementalartsinitiative.com.
Together with his partner Rachael, Eric explores the dynamics of conscious dominance and surrender through their work at Aerosha and EAI. The heart of his approach is a regenerative model yielding profound personal and relational rewards by becoming an alchemist of emotional processing and an artist of expression.
Check out their "Mental Mudroom" course, designed for those feeling reactive, unclear, disconnected, or stuck in dissatisfaction. Discover a biodynamic approach that prunes unhelpful habits, replacing them with emotional clarity and tangible tools for practical relief. Learn more at https://aerosha.art/mental-mudroom
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About Andrew
You can learn more about Andrew and his work at https://infinitedevotion.com, including his flagship course, Becoming A Dominant Man which walks men through a 12 step process to embodying a deep inner Dominance that he can carry through all parts of his life. Find more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man
See all of Andrew & Dawn's courses and offerings at: https://infinitedevotion.com/store
Andrew & Dawn also host the Dom Sub Devotion Podcast together, exploring the depths of their D/s marriage. You can find Dom Sub Devotion at https://infinitedevotion.com or on Spotify, Apple, or any other Podcasting platform!
00:23 Understanding Containment in Relationships
04:16 Practical Examples of Containment
12:42 Creating a Culture of Containment
22:13 The Importance of Honesty and Humility
23:36 Struggling with Dominance and Self-Perception
23:59 Redefining Money and Hierarchy in Relationships
24:34 Understanding Male Dominance and Superiority
24:54 Balancing Hierarchy and Synarchy
25:15 The Importance of Equality in Relationships
26:13 The Role of Permission in Dominant-Submissive Dynamics
28:06 Excitement and Boundaries in Relationships
31:01 The Deeper Truth Behind Dominance and Submission
33:09 Containment and Masculine Responsibility
35:43 The Discipline of Providing Containment
39:41 Setting Communication Structures
41:26 Leading Back to Connection
43:04 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
